Build a memory box

Use a cardboard box and decorate all the sides with markers or paint, drawing memories, messages or pictures in memory of your loved one. Place items like mementos of special times or add notes or drawings for your loved one.

Have a balloon release ceremony

Choose a special time, like your loved one’s birthday or anniversary for the ceremony. Pick a place like a park, beach, field or burial site, to release the balloons. Use helium-filled balloons and have family members write words of remembrance on them. You can talk about how loss and change are a natural part of life, play music or read verses as the balloons are released. 

Plant a tree or flowers

Tending to a growing plant is a symbol of an ongoing relationship and provides many chances to grieve a loss. The life cycle can help you reflect on the memory of your loved one.

Read a children's book about grief

There are many age-specific children’s books that address grief. Books are a great way to help children open up and begin sharing feelings after a loss.

Create memory pages

Use fun scrapbooking paper and include Information about your loved one, such as their name, birthday, date of death, favorite food or activities, words to describe them, or things they enjoyed. Phrases like "I remember you when..." or ''I feel closer to you when..." can help provide inspiration.

Draw with sidewalk chalk art

Decorate your sidewalk or driveway with pictures or words honoring your loved one. Creativity is a great way to help express your feelings and emotions.

Make a bracelet

Use a variety of beads with different colors, shapes and letters. Pick out beads that represent a special memory or detail about your loved one.

Decorate a jar or bottle

Apply paint, decoupage or other materials to a jar or a bottle. You can write messages and place them inside the bottle. These messages can be something that you did not get a chance to say, something that you wish you had done or said differently, a favorite memory, or a life update. Alternatively, you may wish to place a small candle or light inside and use it at times you wish to remember your loved one.

Utilize a journal

You can use a journal to write about or draw special memories of your loved one. Add photos or mementos to make it feel special.

Make a playlist

Create a list of your loved one’s favorite songs. Listen to this when you want to think about them.

Recreate a favorite recipe

Prepare a meal or dessert that your loved one enjoyed or made frequently. While you are making it reminisce about memories associated with the food and favorites that you enjoyed together.

Our grief care services are for anyone in the community who has experienced the loss of a loved one. Discover how our team can help you and your family by contacting us through our website or calling 855.492.0812.